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		<title>At Death&#8217;s Door</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 15:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our mailbox today has an interesting comment from Jackie: &#8220;Can you tell me what they call the window/door that was &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2011/10/20/at-deaths-door/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=654&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our mailbox today has an interesting comment from Jackie:</p>
<p>&#8220;Can you tell me what they call the window/door that was used to move the dead body from the home? I have heard it called “death’s door” hence the expression of one being at death’s door. There is some superstition about moving the dead through the front door.&#8221;</p>
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<p>I am aware of some superstitions surrounding the removal of a body from the home. The deceased was always taken out feet first in the coffin so that the dead could not look back at its home and the spirit remain inside the house.  Many houses of the mid-to-late Victorian period have a special niche called a &#8220;coffin corner&#8221; cut into the stairwell so that the coffin could make the turn in the flight of stairs by fitting the head of the coffin into this little niche shelf.  Some old homes also have a showcase window in the front of the house, a sort of bay window where the deceased could lie in state for people to pass by on the street and pay their respects.</p>
<p>The expression &#8220;at death&#8217;s door&#8221; is applied to someone so ill as to be at the very brink of death. In funeral statuary in cemeteries, a door is often used as the symbol for passing through the portal from Life to another state.  Arches, windows, and portals carry the same meaning.  Sometimes in remote rural homes, a door was used to lay the body upon when carrying it downstairs (as most died in upstairs bedrooms).  Boards made of wide planks of wood or caned surfaces were used as &#8220;cooling boards&#8221; to lay out the body during autopsy or embalming before placing the deceased in a casket or coffin. Please write and tell us if you have more information on this expression!</p>
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		<title>History of Oak Grove now available</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 02:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A History of Oak Grove Cemetery and Walking Tour of Borden-Related Graves and Buildings is now available at the Fall &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2011/08/08/history-of-oak-grove-now-available/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=563&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color:#800000;">A History of Oak Grove Cemetery and Walking Tour of Borden-Related Graves and Buildings </span></strong><span style="color:#000000;">is now available at the Fall River Historical Society and the Lizzie Borden Bed &amp; Breakfast Museum giftshop. A copy will also be available this week at the Fall River room in the public library. The booklet retails for <strong>$19.95 plus tax </strong>and includes a CD of 151 color photos illustrating graves mentioned in the booklet and examples of Victorian symbolism in stone carving. To purchase a copy directly from the author, a check may be made to and sent to<strong> Shelley Dziedzic. P.O. Box 86, North Stonington, CT 06359. The amount should include postage and handling of $4.25 which will include a heavy-duty padded mailer for shipping. ($24.20 total)</strong> If you prefer to pay <strong>by Paypal</strong>, <strong>send $24.20 using the send to button to <span style="color:#800000;"><a href="mailto:Revdma@aol.com"><span style="color:#800000;">Revdma@aol.com</span></a>. </span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Contents</strong></p>
<p>1-2 Introduction</p>
<p>3-4 History of Oak Grove as described in the report of the Massachusetts</p>
<p>Historical Commission, Office of the Secretary, Boston</p>
<p>5-7 Oak Grove in More Recent Days</p>
<p>8-9 Relating to Oak Grove Cemetery and the Interment of the Dead Chapter XXII</p>
<p>City Ordinances 1859</p>
<p>10-16 1915 Report to the Board of Park Commissioners by Egbert Lawton</p>
<p>17-19 Mr. Egbert Lawton, Superintendent of Oak Grove</p>
<p>19 A-B Salaries of Early Superintendents and Expenses of Interest</p>
<p>20 Initial Expense Report 1856</p>
<p>21-22 Approved City Ordinance Applying to Oak Grove Cemetery</p>
<p>23-29 Symbolism on Victorian Funeral Statuary</p>
<p>30 Map for Tour Circuit #1</p>
<p>31-34 Autopsies of Abby &amp; Andrew Borden, August 11, 1892</p>
<p>35 Funerals of Abby &amp; Andrew Borden, August 6, 1892</p>
<p>36-39 Identifications and Biographies for Tour Circuit #1</p>
<p>40 Map for Tour Circuit #2</p>
<p>41-42 Identifications and Biographies for Tour Circuit #2</p>
<p>43 Map for Tour Circuit #3</p>
<p>44-46 Identifications and Biographies for Tour Circuit #3</p>
<p>47-49 Uncle Lawdwick Borden and the Sad Case of the Deaths in the Cistern:</p>
<p>The Suicide of Eliza Darling Borden and Murder of Her Children</p>
<p>50-55 Other Gravesites of Notables</p>
<p>56 Borden-Related Personalities Not Buried at Oak Grove Cemetery</p>
<p>57-63 The Victorian Celebration of Death: The Borden Funerals</p>
<p>64 Sources Used in the Preparation of This Publication</p>
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		<title>Coming August 4th</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2011 02:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Update! Just in time for the anniversary of the crime:  the user-friendly guide to Borden-related graves in Oak Grove Cemetery.  &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2011/07/03/coming-july-19th/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=521&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h4><span style="color:#ffffff;">Update!</span></h4>
<p>Just in time for the anniversary of the crime:  the user-friendly guide to Borden-related graves in Oak Grove Cemetery.  The booklet contains maps, biographies of people connected with the case who are buried at Oak Grove, three walking tours with maps of how to locate both minor and major personalities in the Borden story, a history of the cemetery, fun facts and trivia, who is NOT buried at Oak Grove connected to the Borden case, and articles on the Victorian celebration of death, symbolism on funerary statuary and <em>much more</em>!  Designed in a black and white “Edward Goreyesque” style, the publication will go on sale August 6th.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the mailbox today we received a query about Maidens&#8217; Garlands- a custom which seems to have originated, or else &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2009/07/15/the-custom-of-maidens-garlands/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=280&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the mailbox today we received a query about Maidens&#8217; Garlands- a custom which seems to have originated, or else was extremely popular in 19th century Great Britain.  When a maiden lady passed away, especially a very young, unmarried girl, it was a custom for young <img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-284" title="Funeral-Garland-Matlock" src="http://oakgrovecemetery.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/funeral-garland-matlock.jpg?w=529" alt="Funeral-Garland-Matlock"   />ladies of the parish to construct garlands which were solemnly carried before the casket by two maidens on the way to the cemetery.  These garlands were constructed of white paper, and after the cemetery service were hung in the church.  Also crowns of white living flowers were made which would be borne to the grave by maidens in flowing white dresses, generally processing in pairs.  Statuary in Oak Grove frequently makes use of the symbolism of a crown of rosebuds, lilies, and garland swags for the grave markers of maidens.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A Maiden&#8217;s Garland still hanging in a church in England</em></p>
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		<title>Holding Tombs</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long before the backhoe, the six-foot deep hole for the coffin had to be dug by hand with pickaxe and &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2008/02/22/holding-tombs/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=136&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long before the backhoe, the six-foot deep hole for the coffin had to be dug by hand with pickaxe and shovel.  In the nineteenth century, during the iron cold winters in New England, sometimes it was necessary to store the coffin until the January thaw or Spring when the frost was out of the ground.  There are several of these Egyptian Revival style holding tombs which were built into hills or mounds, each containing shelving on either side of the interior to hold 6-8 coffins.  Today this particular tomb houses lawn mowing equipment.  This holding tomb, which is at the west side of the cemetery near the main entrance, housed the two coffins of Abby and Andrew Borden for a week while city medical examiner, Dr. Dolan, arranged for a complete autopsy on the bodies to be held at Oak Grove in the Ladies Comfort Station.  It was there that the two skulls were removed and held for trial evidence on August 11, 1892.</p>
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		<title>Mausolea</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[n. pl. mau·so·le·ums or mau·so·le·a 1. A large stately tomb or a building housing such a tomb or several tombs.  &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2008/02/14/mausolea/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=125&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pseg"><span style="color:#000000;"><em>n.</em> <em>pl.</em> <strong>mau·so·le·ums</strong> or <strong>mau·so·le·a</strong> <strong>1. </strong>A large stately tomb or a building housing such a tomb or several tombs.</span><em><span style="color:#000000;"> </span></em></div>
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<div class="etyseg"><span style="color:#000000;">There are three mausolea built in the favored classical Grecian style at Oak Grove and one in a distinctly Gothic Revival mode. </span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;"> </span><span style="color:#000000;">The Turner Mausoleum can be found near the main entry , slightly to the center behind the Civil War obelisk and cannon memorial.</span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;">(west facade)</span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;">Typical triangular pediment (south facade)</span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;"> </span><span style="color:#000000;">The Sears and Charlton Mausolea are quite close together in the south end.</span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;"> </span><span style="color:#000000;">Earle Perry Charlton became a Vice President of Woolworth&#8217;s dimestore chain, a position he held until his death in 1930.  Charlton Hospital, just down the street from Oak Grove is named in his honor.  Mr. Charlton was a great  philanthropist and benefactor to the city.</span></div>
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<div class="ds-list"><span style="color:#000000;"> </span><span style="color:#000000;">The Gothic Revival Mausoleum</span></div>
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		<title>Symbolism in Stone</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oak Grove is a non-denominational city cemetery. The majority of burials here could be classified as Protestant-affiliated. Saint Patrick’s cemetery &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2008/02/10/symbolism-in-stone/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=105&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Oak Grove is a non-denominational city cemetery. The majority of burials here could be classified as Protestant-affiliated. Saint Patrick’s cemetery in the north end of the city as well as several Roman Catholic church cemeteries within the city contain the remains of most of the city’s Catholic population. So it is not surprising that saints, angels and crosses are very few within the walls of Oak Grove. Tablet-shaped stones and obelisks are the favored shapes to be found, even among the stones from the 1855-1900.</p>
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<p align="center"><em>The only figural madonna at Oak Grove</em></p>
<p>Granite, marble and the very durable metallic monuments compose the majority of markers. The great beauty of Oak Grove lies in the landscaping of the grounds and the intricate carvings and symbolism on many of the older stones. Although there are sections of contemporary, fairly nondescript markers in the northeast end, the great majority of grave markers in this cemetery are from the golden age of monument carving when hand tools were used and artistry and pride of workmanship were the key elements of the craft. The Fall River area was famous for granite, especially pink granite, and this ready resource is much-evident in use.  The slide presentation above contains many of the symbols associated with fraternal orders and particular Victorian sentiments and virtues.</p>
<p>Anchor- Steadfastness, Hope, a maritime career</p>
<p>Bellflower-Constancy and gratitude</p>
<p>Calla lily- Majesty, Beauty, Marriage</p>
<p>Daisy- Innocence, grave of young child, the &#8220;day&#8217;s eye&#8221;</p>
<p>Fern- Frankness, Humility, Sincerity</p>
<p>Laurel (wreath) Victory, Immortality, Eternity</p>
<p>Lily of the Valley- Innocence, Purity, one of the first Spring flowers</p>
<p>Lyre- References a harp, heaven, angelic music, occasionally used on the grave of a poet.</p>
<p>Madonna Lily- Purity</p>
<p>Rose- Univeral symbol of Love, queen of flowers, used most often on graves of women</p>
<p>Wheat or wheat sheaf- Long life, the reaping of years, productive and abundant</p>
<p>Oak leaves- Strength, Endurance, Faith and Virtue</p>
<p>Open Book- Book of Life, List of St. Peter, life of the deceased as an open book, a pure  life</p>
<p>Tree or log stones- These could be ordered from Sears and Roebuck catalogue, and were used for the Woodsmen fraternity as well as carpenters, builders, lumbermen, or to suggest by their height as short life cut off in its prime, head of the family, and occasionally contains a nest with birds suggesting children of the deceased.</p>
<p>Dove- Most popular animal seen in cemeteries, symbolizes Peace, Holy Spirit</p>
<p>Hands Clasping- An earthly farewell, a heavenly welcome or matrimony</p>
<p>Curtain, Drapery, Veil- Passing from one existence to another, an ending</p>
<p>Hourglass- Fleeting Time, <em>Tempus Fugit,</em> inevitability of earthly Death</p>
<p>Door, arch, gateway- Passing from one existence to the next</p>
<p>Ship- Seafaring life, a journey, or symbol for the Chirch universal with the mast as the cross</p>
<p>Torch-  Upside down position has the meaning of extinguished life.</p>
<p>Pine Tree- Evergreen, Eternal</p>
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		<title>Coffins and Caskets</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although these two words are often used interchangeably, there is a difference between a coffin and a casket.  A proper &#8230;<p><a href="http://friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org/2008/01/30/coffins-and-caskets/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=friendsofoakgrovecemetery.org&#038;blog=2428531&#038;post=90&#038;subd=oakgrovecemetery&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#000000;">Although these two words are often used interchangeably, there is a difference between a coffin and a casket.  A proper coffin is wider at the shoulder and tapers toward the feet.  This was felt to be a prudent saving of costly wood as there was no need for width all the way to the bottom.  This style is still to be found in Europe today. Coffins were sometimes very simple pine boxes, unlined and unadorned. Fancier models were lined, had a coffin plate of brass or silver with the deceased&#8217;s name and dates and sometimes a sentiment such as &#8220;Our Darling&#8221; or &#8220;Beloved Wife&#8221;, and had three metal handles on each side for the six pallbearers to grasp on the way to the grave. Graves were sometimes lined with fir branches, and after the coffin was lowered, bricked over to discourage graverobbers or other disturbance.  It was not unusual for cabinet or furniture makers to do a brisk side trade in coffin making.</span></p>
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<p align="left"><span style="color:#000000;">Lizzie Borden&#8217;s father, Andrew J. Borden, was a carpenter by training before branching out into farming and real estate, and although not a mortician, he did build coffins and was an &#8220;undertaker&#8221; in the sense of providing items needed for a funeral such as chairs, coffin stands, conveyance to the grave, and other incidentals. A newspaper article tells of Mr. Borden displaying a prominent Civil War casualty in the arcade window complete with bunting in the storefront  of the furniture business he owned with partner William Almy, so as more citizens could view the body and pay their repects in a time before the rise of the conventional funeral &#8220;parlor&#8221;. </span></p>
<p align="center"><a title="theophilus_blake_coffin_plate.jpg" href="http://oakgrovecemetery.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/theophilus_blake_coffin_plate.jpg"><span style="color:#000000;"><img src="http://oakgrovecemetery.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/theophilus_blake_coffin_plate.jpg?w=529" alt="theophilus_blake_coffin_plate.jpg" /></span></a><span style="color:#000000;"> coffin plate</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="color:#000000;">Embalming became a necessity in transporting Civil War dead from a distance back home again, but before those times, the dead were usually quickly buried and not embalmed.  For this reason, in their haste, errors were made and those in comas or showing signs of death were mistakenly buried alive.  Edgar Allan Poe wrote a story of this unsettling possibility in his 1850 story, <em>The Premature Burial.</em>  Many patented safety coffins were invented to prevent this by means of a bell rope tied to the hand of the buried person which would communicate with the living by means of a bell above the ground.  Sometimes a flag could be raised, or even explosives ignited by the unfortunate Undead.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="color:#000000;">Exhumations over the years have proven that premature burial did indeed take place, however the expressions &#8220;saved by the bell&#8221; and &#8220;dead ringer&#8221; do NOT come from this situation. &#8220;Saved by the bell&#8221; has its origins in the boxing ring, and &#8220;dead ringer&#8221; refers to substituting a look-alike for the genuine.</span></p>
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<p align="left"><span style="color:#000000;">A casket originally referred to a small chest for storing and carrying jewels or precious objects.  A casket is a rectangular container of the same width from top to bottom.  It is generally padded and lined, and goes into the ground after the grave has been lined with a vault. Today cemeteries still use concrete vaults or the new resin &#8220;grave liners&#8221; which also have sealed lids. Caskets usually open at the top so the head and shoulders of the deceased may be viewed at the wake, and have the customary three handles on each side for pallbearers.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="color:#000000;">For more information on Victorian safety coffins, click on the following link for an excellent article<strong>  </strong></span><a href="http://www.americanartifacts.com/smma/life/life.htm"><span style="color:#ffcc00;"><strong><span style="color:#000000;">http://www.americanartifacts.com/smma/life/life.htm</span></strong></span></a></p>
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